Reality TV star and actress Bisola Aiyeola has shared a personal lesson she learned about loyalty and friendships, revealing that she once had a habit of taking sides in other people’s disagreements.
Speaking on a recent podcast, Bisola admitted that she used to get deeply involved in conflicts involving her friends, colleagues, and even acquaintances without hearing both sides of the story.
According to her, she believed she was being loyal by standing up for the people close to her.However, her perspective changed after one particular experience.
She explained that after defending someone during a disagreement, the two people eventually settled their differences, leaving her feeling like the outsider. That experience made her realize that not every conflict is hers to fight.Bisola said she has now become more careful about getting involved in other people’s issues. While she doesn’t expect her friends to take on her personal conflicts, she believes there are certain boundaries that should be respected in close friendships.
She added that she would find it unacceptable if a close friend chose to become friends with or date her ex-fiancé. Bisola also revealed that she has ended friendships with men who were involved in relationships or disputes with her best friends because she values loyalty and respect in her relationships.
